3 keys to WIN temptation every single time!
Solution You've Been Looking For
by ALGIRTS JANULIS
PORN RECOVERY COACH
FOR CHRISTIANS
Why am I writing this?
I’m writing this Guide to give Hope to those who are on the same journey. Why? Because I know how it feels. I struggled for over four years with no help, no support, and no clear path to quit pornography and masturbation addiction. I searched endlessly for a solution, but it took far too long to find. I know how frustrating and lonely this journey can be. This guide is here to help you understand what the recovery journey is really about and why you shouldn't worry about your setbacks. Why I know this will help you? Because it already helped not only me, but others as well. Trust me, it's way easier than you think. Follow this Guide and don't give up!
- AJ
WHY YOU SHOULD READ THIS:
“The recovery has been amazing working with Algirts. I was a porn addict, masturbating multiple times a day, before quitting for 3 months. It was hard at the start, but I've been getting full support. His advice has been amazing, and I'm happy to have worked with him!”
Kevin
“I am grateful for your guidance, and I thank you for kindness. I thank you for being
compassionate. I thank you for understanding, and mostly, I thank you for not giving up on me and allowing me to make my decisions!”
Mohammed
“After now finishing my 2-month journey with AJ as my mentor, I have to admit I couldn't have
gotten this far without the man, and each week I have gotten better and stronger in more than one
way, and a lot of it I owe to this man. He listens without judgment and advises you with the best
info he can give to anyone who is willing to help themselves. If you are 100% serious about quitting
this addiction for good, he is more than willing to go above and beyond to help anyone.”
Damian
BREAKTHROUGH THAT WILL SAVE YOU FROM 95% OF RELAPSES
STOP FIGHTING!
Wow, wow, wow... hold on...
You are telling me that all this time I've been doing the wrong thing???
You want me to just... GIVE UP?
No.
I want you to give up on YOU, not recovery.
I know it doesn't make sense right now, but it will once you finish reading this GUIDE.
But for now, remember...
Recovery takes time.
And there is NO prefect path.
The truth is - you will encounter few other slips before finally MASTERING this process that I will share with you.
I know because I've been there myself.
And the reason I know this will work for you is because we ALL function of the same principles.
Yes, we might have different belief systems, cultural differences, life circumstances... But we are all the same!
So, trust me when I say this will work for you.
Cuz it works EVERY single time when you implement this strategy that I am about to share with you.
I had many slips on my own journey because I've been ignoring one or few of the steps even after I discovered the "solution"
But the great thing is - this solution works. No matter how many times you fail - once you start implementing this strategy it will pull you right back on track.
In this guide, I will prove to you how ONE simple trick can completely transform your recovery journey even if you think you've tried everything.
But...
Don't get me wrong.
Everything you've experienced and learned before will come handy for your progress.
I am here to guide you by showing what exactly must be done when those uncontrollable cravings hit.
YOUR FAILURES ARE GETTING YOU CLOSER TO RECOVERY. NOT FURTHER AWAY!!!
You certainly don’t want another “advice” that will lead to disappointment…
I get it...
But that’s exactly why I want you to hear me out on this, because it can CHANGE EVERYTHING for you.
But...
It will work ONLY if you actually apply this to your life!
No shortcuts. No “quick fixes,” and certainly—no magic.
Cut off that cheating mindset. This is not a videogame.
If you need some magic spell that will automatically make you “NORMAL” again and undo all the years of damage—I encourage you to close this tab and leave. This is not for you.
(I’m not kidding… You will only waste your time here!)
But…
If you are here for change, then this is exactly what you’ve been looking for.
So. Are you ready?
7 Alarming things you must know before starting recovery
Before we dive deeper, let’s cover some crucial steps here.
Because won't cover this, you will not understand how to create that SHIELD that will protect you from porn, but most importantly - you will fail to use it.
1. YOU ARE NOT HOPELESS LOSER:
How many times you've judged yourself for what you've done?
Especially after another relapse. Another failure...
I want you to realize that we are not here to judge ourselves, anyone else, or anything else… because it all doesn’t matter.
Yes, you might have been tricked into pornography and “flapping” when you were younger, just like I was… and then you started doing it regularly.
And yes, you might have failed HUNDREDS OF TIMES…
But the past is in the past, and I need you to let go of it!
No... Let me clarify.
YOU NEED TO LET GO OF IT!
Worrying or getting angry at yourself or others won’t help you make decisions or take the necessary steps to overcome this addiction. It will only make you drown in it deeper and deeper.
Why?
Here comes a very important PRINCIPLE I want you to understand once and for all.
2. Addictions are coping mechanisms to deal with NEGATIVE emotions
PERIOD.
You are not wrong. You are not different from any other human being. Because we all function on the same principles.
And here is the thing...
Our body cares ONLY about your survival instincts.
Not your goals, passions, dreams, obligations, responsibilities, etc…
That's why it is so confusing.
that's why it feels like you have two identities. One want to quit porn, but the other one pulls you into it.
Now take a deep breath, and stay calm.
because here is the truth...
3. OUR BODY WANTS PORN:
I know... sounds crazy.
But trust me. You won't be able to move forward if you will not accept this simple truth.
You see…
The very reason you and I get an erection when we see or hear someone having sex is because that is a part of our HUMAN nature.
IT IS OUR BODY!
It doesn’t matter whether you are Christian or not, because you can’t escape this simple nature of our human being. That’s just who we are.
“For I know that good itself does not dwell in me, that is, in my sinful nature. For I have the desire to do what is good, but I cannot carry it out. For I do not do the good I want to do, but the evil I do not want to do—this I keep doing.”
(Romans 7:18-19)
Even Apostle Paul struggled with his human (sinful) nature, which he recorded in his writings.
And before we go further, let me clarify, because I know you might be thinking, “I’ve heard this before… we just need to accept our nature, etc…”
Yes, but mostly NO. It’s different. Much different.
because acceptance alone won't help us to uncover...
4. WHY WE GET URGES:
Look...
Just like animals, we (our body) have an instinct to REPRODUCE. And we trigger that instinct every single time we see a naked woman or someone having sex.
yeah... schools don't teach this stuff nowdays... But anyway...
What is NOT normal is craving sex 24/7, objectify every woman you see and getting triggered in public places when there is no reason for it.
(If you know, you know…)
BUT...
The very fact you have a need for sex in completely NORMAL!
So God created man in his own image, in the image of God created he him; male and female created he them.
And God blessed them, and God said unto them, Be fruitful, and MULTIPLY.
(Genesis 1:27-28)
This was built within us since the beginning of times.
The only problem is - we are using it incorrectly.
(and no, it's not only to make babies)
To explain what is happening here and how you can finally FIX yourself, I need to share with you a story about the “Dog Experiment.” Or in other words...
5. WHY YOU CAN'T STOP CRAVING PORN AND MASTURBATION:
In the 20th century, Russian scientist Dr. Pavlov did an experiment on dogs that explained EXACTLY what is happening to us.
No, dogs didn’t watch porn, lol…
The experiment went like this: he put dogs in a chamber and started to feed them occasionally. BUT… every time before he gave them food, he rang a bell.
He did that over and over again, day by day until one day, when he rang the bell, he didn’t give the dogs any food.
“So what?” you might be wondering.
Here is the interesting part.
Even though the dogs didn’t get ANY food after the sound of the bell—they started to salivate like CRAZY. They were expecting it even though they didn’t get any.
Why?
Because they got WIRED to the sound of the bell to EXPECT food!
Or in Pavlov’s words—they got CONDITIONED.
The same is happening with us. We watched so much porn that we linked those images, scenes, and feelings to masturbation and orgasm so many times that our brain got CONDITIONED to it.
And here is the answer to those unexpected urges after you told yourself, “That’s it! I’m not doing it again!”
It doesn’t matter what you tell yourself…
Because every time you get triggered, you’ll immediately feel this craving towards lust.
And it’s not because you necessarily looked at anything… but because you were in the STATE in which you usually would look at porn, just like the dogs heard the sound of a bell and started to salivate, expecting the food.
6. MAIN TRIGGERS TO LOOK FOR PORN:
Any sound or scene that reminded you of a particular video…
Any person that reminded you of a specific character…
Any name… any feeling on your skin or in a private spot…
Anything that reminds you of porn eventually triggers you!!!
So, I just get myself happy and busy, right? WRONG!
Finally, we are moving closer to the solution part.
And as you already might guessed, the same way we got ourselves conditioned to pornography - we need to get ourselves unconditioned.
But how do we do that?
Have you ever watched a boxing match? Or maybe a sports game? Maybe you've seen a movie where the main hero grows stronger through the storyline and eventually wins the battle against the villain?
There are many reasons why the heroes of these stories win.
Yes, they trained hard. Maybe had a great team. Had a great teacher...
But most importantly...
They knew their enemy!
After all, can you win a fight without knowing your opponent?
Or at least have basic knowledge about the enemy and how he strikes...
That's why we are here!
To get in control we need to learn what is holding us back ever time we want to get better.
We need to learn what our BODY needs so we can finally stop practicing things that will never work...
THE REAL ENEMY:
Did you know that there are certain things in our life that triggers us MOST when it comes to porn?
Here is the crazy part...
It's not only about porn. These things are the reasons we crave pleasure in the first place.
Yes, anything that gives us instant gratification. It can be YouTube videos we watch, junk food we eat, cigarettes we smoke, or movies we binge-watch—all to feel good INSTANTLY.
In our case, it’s porn and masturbation.
So.
What are those things?
OUR HUMAN NEEDS - ANCHOR FOR PORN:
I already mentioned to you that our body functions on instincts.
Literally!
It only cares about a few things:
Did you have enough sleep?
Did you eat?
Did you drink?
Do you need the bathroom?
Are you warm?
And by the way—are you breathing!?!?!
I know it might sound funny, but that is exactly how our body thinks.
And yes, this is only the bottom of the ladder.
There are also security needs, social needs, self-development needs, etc…
There are so many things to worry about. And if I were to include them all, I wouldn’t have enough space on this page…
I know... That's not very promising.
But what If I say that you DON'T NEED to know all these needs to get in control?
Heck, you don't even need to MEET all of these needs...
I will explain you exactly how in short, but what I want you to understand is this.
If we don’t meet ANY of these needs—we AUTOMATICALLY start to worry and feel insecure.
Yes. ANY of these needs. Even those that you are not aware of.
It’s our inner security (or should I say “insecurity”) system that will ring alarm bells when it smells the fire approaching.
And guess what?
If we don’t deal with it, eventually we fall into the trap of disappointment, sadness, frustration, depression, boredom, loneliness, etc…
In other words—a NEGATIVE EMOTIONAL STATE that will ALWAYS lead us to seek PORN.
now...
Let's finally focus on how to handle this.
And the BEST thing…
You don’t need to spend ANY money on it!
You don’t have to go and read tons of books about it!
You don’t need to change your whole life around to make it work!
BECAUSE IT LIES WITHIN YOU!!!
All you need is to UNLOCK IT.
And I am going to show you HOW.
This is that one SHIELD I’ve been preparing you for ever since the beginning of this long wall of text. But let me tell you—if you made it this far, it means that you will now understand EVERYTHING I will share with you further. Because those who skip the explanation will only get confused and go look for another “secret strategy” that DOESN’T EXIST.
So… if you’ve made it this far—Good Job!
Because now it’s time to learn about…
(drumroll...)
THE SHIELD
If I speak in the tongues of men or of angels, but do not have love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing. If I give all I possess to the poor and give over my body to hardship that I may boast, but do not have love, I gain nothing. Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.
(1. Corinthians 13:1-13)
how this works:
Love, Faith and Hope.
Three main ingredients to build that SHIELD that will block the temptation out of your life like an ad-blocker.
Yes, those ads will be still out there, and yes... Some of them will not get blocked that easily...
However...
These 3 ingredients will help you to get in control EVERY SINGLE TIME, if you apply them into your life.
Let me go over each one of these so you can start getting IMMEDIATE results right now.
HOW LOVE WINS TEMPTATION:
Years ago, when I got into my first relationship with a girl, I wasn’t trying to quit watching porn or masturbating. To be clear—I was doing it almost daily. However, when I entered that relationship, something changed. Suddenly, the need for porn and masturbation disappeared. Not because I had sex (I didn’t), but because, for the first time in my life, I felt pure LOVE from another person—not just from my parents or relatives.
But… everything went back to where it started when we broke up.
Don’t get me wrong.
I’m not saying that all you need is a good relationship.
The problem is this: many men, even those who are married, still struggle with this addiction despite being in loving relationships.
I’ve personally met many married men who wrestle with overcoming their addiction, even though they have amazing wives who cherish them despite their problem.
It’s not about the partner… or other people.
It is OUR OWN problem!
And I will prove it to you.
How many stories have you heard about famous celebrities who ended up dying from suicide or drug overdose?
Didn’t they have money, status, and fans everywhere?
Yet they felt miserable, which led them to seek stimulation (pleasure) they couldn’t handle.
Some died from overdose, while others committed suicide after trying everything they could think of, only to find nothing worked.
Why?
Because it doesn’t matter what others think about us...
What really matters is what WE think about OURSELVES!
(Keep reading.)
Currently, you know that addictions are simply coping mechanisms to deal with negative emotions.
So, let me ask you this…
Do you get urges to look at porn when you’re happy?
When your spouse says something kind to you?
When you feel completely confident about yourself?
When you feel LOVED?
My guess is—the answer is NO.
Because we don’t seek extra stimulation when we feel happy and complete.
Why?
We simply don’t need to.
“But how can I feel happy and complete when there are so many things to worry about in my life?”
That’s the problem.
We tend to focus on the problems rather than the solutions.
We tend to dwell on what’s wrong rather than what’s right.
We spend more time thinking about the negative than celebrating the positive.
And here’s why this step is so important:
Because we need to learn HOW TO LOVE!
And the best part is…
You don’t need to spend years, months, or even weeks studying this!!!
Because we already have the greatest story of pure, unconditional love that not only teaches us how to love but, most importantly…
Makes us FEEL loved.
If you’re a Christian, this is the very first step I want you to take if you’re struggling right now:
Get back to God.
Remember what He has done for you.
Pray, and allow His love to surround you.
“Does this work only for religious people?”
No. You can experience a similar feeling if you’re lucky enough.
But here’s the catch: the love we receive from people is always limited.
Only God offers us unconditional love 24/7 without harming us.
BUT HERE IS THE PROBLEM!!!
(Or, I should say, why we need the next steps.)
If all we needed was God’s love, we wouldn’t need women, right?
That’s why taking care of your intimate relationships also matters.
So… if you’re married and this is an area where you struggle, you definitely need to pay attention to it.
But…
None of it will matter if we don’t address the next steps.
HOPE AGAINST PORN:
You see, love is just a quick summary of what we should focus on.
But as I already shared with you...
It's not about the others...
It's about US!
Remember the story about my romantic relationship, that helped me get rid of the need for porn?
Years later, when I was struggling with overcoming porn addiction, I joined a church community that helped me discover that same feeling again. But this time, it wasn’t about another person or sex. It was about me. And only me.
You see...
I’ve heard about the "unconditional love of God..." And I also prayed regularly. I even joined church services, thinking it would help...
But I was still struggling.
Moreover—the more I heard about the Bible and its message about Jesus, the worse my situation got...
And I couldn’t understand why...
Until I learned something that changed my life around.
Learning to love MYSELF.
You see, I can’t even express how critically important this is for every single Christian, let alone other people on earth...
I thought I knew how to love.
But in reality...
I realized how much I was actually disqualifying myself as a person.
I would be kind, respectful, friendly with others...
But I never thought about how important I WAS.
Even thinking about it would give me thoughts like, "I am not worthy... That’s pride... I need to be more humble..."
But what I didn’t realize is that even Jesus Himself mentioned in the Bible that we need to LOVE OURSELVES FIRST, before we even think about others.
"Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and, ... Love your neighbor as YOURSELF."
(Mark 12:30)
Are you following?
Listen...
There are so many things to worry about... So many ways we can fall for temptation if we don’t take care of our emotional well-being...
I won’t even mention the TRAUMA healing part in recovery...
But it all doesn’t matter...
If we don’t take care of OURSELVES!
"What do you mean, AJ!?"
It means—start doing the things that YOU want. Not others.
Have you ever asked yourself:
"Why am I working this hard?"
"Why do I wake up in the morning?"
"Why do I need to become better?"
"What do I really want?"
Hard to answer?
That’s probably because you think it’s impossible.
But what if someone gave you 1 million dollars?
What would you do with it?
How would you spend it?
What would you allow yourself?
What?
Have you already forgotten what’s written in the Bible?
"For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future."
(Jeremiah 29:11)
"But seek ye first the Kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added unto you."
(Matthew 6:33)
"Therefore I tell you, whatever you ask for in prayer, believe that you have received it, and it will be yours."
(Mark 11:24)
"The Lord will fight for you; you need only to be still.”
(Exodus 14:14)
"If God is for us, who can be against us?"
(Romans 8:31)
"Our help is in the name of the LORD, the Maker of heaven and earth."
(Psalm 124:8)
"But with God all things are possible."
(Matthew 19:26)
"Behold, I am the LORD, the God of all flesh; is there anything too hard for Me?"
(Jeremiah 32:27)
This is only a small portion of HOPE that God provides us with through the Bible.
The only thing we need to do is—APPLY it to our life!
The Oxford Dictionary defines hope as, "a feeling of expectation and desire for a particular thing to happen."
So let me ask you...
What things do you expect to happen?
What are your desires?
Believe me...
Without answering these questions, your mind will automatically value porn more than anything else in your life...
Because it gives you so much stimulation for FREE!!!
Pornography is extremely tempting. And it is all over the place.
That’s why we need a strong reason to do whatever it takes to give ourselves enough time so our brain gets UNCONDITIONED from the habitual need for it.
That simple!
But there is still one more thing we need to do.
Because we can still manage to slip even though we have LOVE in our life, as well as goals, plans, and visions...
Without it, this whole process will fall apart!
POWER OF FAITH:
Have you ever wondered why Jesus mentioned belief and faith so much in the gospels?
Because without it, nothing works.
Having faith is much different than simply receiving love or creating plans and visions.
You can marry someone and expect a beautiful romantic future...
But if reality kicks in hard, and you realize that there is no way this person will help you achieve the reality you expected—it’s hard to keep your faith in that relationship.
Let alone—to receive love...
That’s why nowadays there are more divorce cases than ever in the history of the world.
Mostly because of porn, but also—broken expectations.
Be honest.
There are so many romantic movies out there that promise a loving future with the partner you find...
But those movies never show what happens after the "happy ending."
How the main characters deal with the reality of life—washing dishes, doing laundry, going through ups and downs—not even mentioning kids...
And now compare it to porn, which offers ONLY the "prize" of sex, neglecting the whole meaning of intimacy and the entire process of building a trustworthy relationship for a couple to even have sex in the first place.
Ugh...
We need faith in everything we do.
Oxford Dictionary explains faith as, "complete trust or confidence in someone or something."
So... if you lose that confidence...
If there is no way you can trust that everything will work out...
Whether it’s your relationship, health, or finances...
If you lose faith—you become weak, hopeless, depressed, stressed...
And...
Vulnerable to all kinds of different temptations, including—porn.
HOW DO WE KEEP FAITH?
Have you ever heard the phrase "leap of faith?"
No, you don’t need to jump off a cliff...
What I’m saying is that we must take specific action steps that PROVE to our addicted brain that we don’t need porn.
We need to PROVE to our mind that we CAN achieve the things we hope for.
And yes... we don’t just sit and wait for things to happen...
We can actually make things happen!
Including—building strong faith through WORK.
That’s why we went through all this great wall of text:
To give you a glance at how the recovery actually works, and why love, faith, and hope is the only answer.
The only thing left for you is to start your successful recovery journey!
Moreover—I will equip you with everything you need to get started FOR FREE!
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